It’s Christmas Eve, so naturally I’m reflecting on years past. The holidays can be kind of difficult, but I always try to remember and to remind others that the holidays can be what you make of them, at least if you try. Don’t feel pressured to have to “do” something. It’s hard, but you really can make it your own thing. Over the years, Christmas has changed and evolved and sometimes devolved for me. I’ve enjoyed years in my childhood where the entire family would come together and we’d be cascaded with gifts, good food, and memories. I’ve had Christmases as a youngster where we were wanting for food and gifts and where we had very little. I’ve had Christmases where I was separated…