There are moments in life when we wonder if we’ve made the right choices. The realization of all of your decisions up until that very point, when you’re standing and thinking and your skin erupts in gooseflesh; when your brain dissects with computer-like precision all of the alternate paths you could have taken, the many different lives you could have led, the different places and times you could have lived in- it can hit you like the much-cliched “ton of bricks”. You feel the weight of each of those bricks being carried on your proverbial back, laden and created with the guilt, anger, and sadness you’ve experienced up until then. Only when you come to peace with who you’ve become can you fully appreciate…